How to Create a Living Legacy

How to Create a Living Legacy

Creating a Living Legacy is simpler than you might think. It is not about perfection — it is about presence. It is your chance to share your story, your lessons and your love with the people who matter most.

At MyGoodbyes, we help you turn reflection into something tangible and lasting. Here’s how to begin.


1. Reflect on what to share

Start by thinking about the memories, lessons and experiences that have shaped you. Ask yourself:

  • What stories do I want my loved ones to remember?
  • What values or principles guide my life?
  • What would I like my children, grandchildren or friends to know about me?

You might include funny stories, moments of courage, lessons from mistakes or reflections on what really matters.

2. Choose your format

Your Living Legacy can take any form that feels natural to you:

  • Handwritten letters or a simple journal
  • Audio notes recorded on your phone
  • Short videos in your own voice
  • Photographs with short captions
  • A digital folder that brings everything together

There is no right or wrong way — what matters most is authenticity.

3. Capture and organise

Set aside a little time now and then to record or write something new. Label files clearly with names and dates, and group them into simple folders such as Stories, Messages, Photos, and Recipes. These small actions make it easy for others to find and cherish later.

4. Share and keep safe

Tell trusted people where to find your Living Legacy and how to access it. Keep one secure copy and another shared version for family or close friends. Review your collection occasionally — you may wish to add new stories or reflections as life unfolds.